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Gaone Monau
  • Of Compatibility & Love Relationships 1

    A being an educated and loving man with several degrees does not have the blessing of his consanguinity and affinity as they proffer that B is uneducated and therefore unfit to get married to B. This is despite B’s lovingness and assortment of...

  • Of Compatibility & Love Relationships 1

    A being an educated and loving man with several degrees does not have the blessing of his consanguinity and affinity as they proffer that B is uneducated and therefore unfit to get married to B. This is despite B’s lovingness and assortment of...

  • Of The Differences Between Men & Women And Gender Based Violence

    The differences between men and women espoused in this article have been largely derived from Myles Munroe’s findings on the said two genders. Their relationship with GBV originates from my experiences in the field as a motivational speaker and...

  • Of Economic Abuse And Men In Intimate Heterosexual Relationships

    Hence, this piece seeks to address economic abuse against men in intimate heterosexual relationships. The examples of economic abuse against males given in this article largely stem from some of my consultations with both male and female clients in...

  • Of Economic Abuse & Women In Heterosexual Relationships

    Women and children mostly fall prey to gender-based violence in comparison to men. This article is therefore aimed at addressing economic abuse against heterosexual women in love relationships or marriage.According to the Domestic Violence Act cap...

  • Of Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Personality Disorder 12

    1. What is narcissistic abuse from the legal perspective?2. What statutory remedies are available to casualties of narcissistic abuse?3. What does the applicant (victim of narcissistic abuse) have to do in order to prove narcissistic abuse in...

  • Of Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Personality Disorder 11

    • Avoid unnecessary conflict - Try to keep emotions out of the mix. Your partner/ex is likely to revel in seeing you super anxious or upset. Don’t give them the satisfaction. When it comes to arguments, avoid using your child as a go-between,...

  • Of Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Personality Disorder (Part 10)

    According to Section 29 (1) – 9 of the Children’s Act 2009 1. Where the biological parents of a child are not married to one another and do not live together, they may enter into a co-parenting agreement (emphasis ours).2. The agreement shall set...

  • Of Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Personality Disorder 9

    1. Acknowledge and accept that you were abused – the acknowledgement of truth is always the first step towards acquiring sustainable solutions. Accept that you were abused and that you gotta find ways to effectively deal with the effects of such...

  • Of Emotional Abuse & Narccisistic Personality Disorder 7

    1. Self-doubt - as aforementioned, one of the narcissist’s greatest tools of abuse is gaslighting; As the narcissist continually gaslights their casualties their self-esteem and perspective of the world slowly erodes. Many a time we speak about the...

  • Of emotional abuse& narccisistic personal disorder 6

    It is worth reiterating that, this sequel is not designed to shame/blame victims of narcissism; its rationale is to shed light on various human characteristics that could strengthen the hold of narcissism on its victims. It is forestalled that once...

  • Of Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Personality disorder 6

    It is worth reiterating that, this sequel is not designed to shame/blame victims of narcissism; its rationale is to shed light on various human characteristics that could strengthen the hold of narcissism on its victims. It is forestalled that once...

  • Of emotional abuse & narcissistic personality disorder 6

    It is forestalled that once light is shed on some of these traits the hold of narcissism will in all likelihood lose its grip on its casualties. • Projecting our own goodness on others – an ordinary mortal who daily strives to live a morally...

  • Of Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Personality Disorder (Part 6)

    It is worth reiterating that, this sequel is not designed to shame/blame victims of narcissism; its rationale is to shed light on various human characteristics that could strengthen the hold of narcissism on its victims.  It is forestalled that...

  • Of Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Personality Disorder (Part 6)

    Projecting our own goodness on others – an ordinary mortal who daily strives to live a morally upright life albeit their human fallibilities may be prone to projecting their own goodness and sense of morality on others.  Projecting our...

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