the monitor

My husband is distant

Dear Gaone Please keep my identity anonymous. I just got married and the future looks bright with my beloved. Nonetheless, I have noticed that my husband becomes distant at times without any reasonable cause. Perhaps I am not in not in a position to accurately say he has changed because being married to him and staying with him full time is totally different from dating and seeing each other occasionally. Honestly, this scares me helluvah. Whenever he is distant and I ask what is wrong he just says ‘nothing, I am just relaxing.’ I am not sure what to think. Kindly advise.

Dear Anonymous

I will quote verbatim the contents of Dr John Gray’s book titled ‘Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus in an attempt to advise you. In the said book men are referred to as Martians whilst women are referred to as Venusians.

Editor's Comment
BPF should get house in order

Speaker of the National Assembly, Dithapelo Keorapetse, has this week rightly washed his hands of the mess, refusing to wade into a party squabble that has no clear leadership and no single version of the truth.When a single party sends six different letters to the Speaker’s office, each claiming to be the authoritative voice, it is not just confusion, but an embarrassment.Keorapetse is correct to insist on institutional boundaries. Parliament...

Have a Story? Send Us a tip
arrow up