Masculinity under siege?
Thursday, May 30, 2013
When such stories are reported I'm reminded of the imigidi I have attended, celebrating the return of ikrwala (a new man). Growing up, the deaths of amakrwala (the "new men") were viewed with shame and if anything went wrong people would speak in hushed voices about ihlazo - the shame a family would face if the ritual went awry or ended the life of a son.
Dying at an initiation camp has become an issue of national importance. And rightfully so. The African National Congress(ANC) issued a statement announcing a "parliamentary debate on deaths of initiates" and it was reported that the president was outraged.In the name of culture any suggestion that has been put forward to avoid fatalities has been ignored. The ritual is a private and public moment. Any changes made means the tradition is being disrupted or tampered with (often by outsiders) and thus less authentic and in danger of incurring the "wrath of the ancestors".
It underscores the indispensable role women play in our society, particularly in building strong households and nurturing families. The recognition of women as the bedrock of our communities is not just a sentiment; it's a call to action for all women to stand together and support each other in their endeavours.The society's aim to instil essential principles and knowledge for national development is crucial. By providing a platform for...