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The pain of losing family members in quick succession

For most of last year, and the entire preceding year, I went through the traumatic experience of seeing the corrosive power of prostate cancer gradually eating away at my big brother’s body and mercilessly invading the seams of his dignity.

Although he had an amazing will to live, his slender and diminutive stature seemed to work against his resilience and valiant fight to stretch his lifespan.

In my role as one of the caregivers, perhaps the most challenging thing was to absorb and digest the bad news from the oncologist, clear that the cancer could not be staved off. “The cancer has reached its final stage and your brother is too weak to benefit from chemotherapy. For now, we can only focus on managing the pain, and we will do our best to make him comfortable within reason.” This sounded like a horrifying death sentence, only that the date of execution was deferred.

Editor's Comment
BPF should get house in order

Speaker of the National Assembly, Dithapelo Keorapetse, has this week rightly washed his hands of the mess, refusing to wade into a party squabble that has no clear leadership and no single version of the truth.When a single party sends six different letters to the Speaker’s office, each claiming to be the authoritative voice, it is not just confusion, but an embarrassment.Keorapetse is correct to insist on institutional boundaries. Parliament...

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