Motlhabani explained that upon his return to Botswana after his stint in the Big Brother house, many people asked him why he refused to canoodle with Angolan housemate Tatiana Durao. He said the question was repeated by many people and it stuck to his mind until he eventually wrote the book. The title was therefore influenced by the questions. Motlhabani said he asked Tatiana if he could use her name for the cover which she agreed to.
He added that although he used Tatiana's name in the book title, it is not entirely about her, as the 180 page paperback also discusses other housemates, and details his experience in the house. Motlhabani gave a peak into to the book, noting that it starts from the auditions stage until he was eventually selected to represent Botswana at the Big Brother house. It progresses into details about how the inside of the house operates from the kisses, fights, and partying and mind games.
