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Of Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Personality Disorder 9

This article is a worthy continuance of the former. This piece seeks to share some nuggets of wisdom on the steps casualties of narcissistic abuse can take in order to effect their emotional healing.

1. Acknowledge and accept that you were abused – the acknowledgement of truth is always the first step towards acquiring sustainable solutions. Accept that you were abused and that you gotta find ways to effectively deal with the effects of such abuse until you are emotionally healed.

2. Set your boundaries and state them clearly - Therapists and abuse recovery specialists often recommend cutting off all contact with your ex-partner after ending the relationship, whenever possible. At times you may have to apply for a restraining order if the narcissist blatantly refuses to break up with you.


Editor's Comment
Micro-procurement maze demands urgent reform

Whilst celebrating milestones in inclusivity, with notably P5 billion awarded to vulnerable groups, the report sounds a 'siren' on a dangerous and growing trend: the ballooning use of micro-procurement. That this method, designed for small-scale, efficient purchases, now accounts for a staggering 25% (P8 billion) of total procurement value is not a sign of agility, but a 'red flag'. The PPRA’s warning is unequivocal and must be...

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