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Death of a Mother

Loving bond: Even death cannot break the connection between mothers and their children PIC: STOCK IMAGE FROM GETTY IMAGES
Loving bond: Even death cannot break the connection between mothers and their children PIC: STOCK IMAGE FROM GETTY IMAGES

Six years ago, nearing 80, a close friend lost his mother to death. She was 98. Thereafter he was inconsolable for a good number of months.

Try as I might, I have never managed to explain his emotional turmoil.

But I think I now have a working hypothesis for it. Caution: it is not based on any professional knowledge or expertise. Rather, it is a caricature that arises out of my own personal life experience.

Editor's Comment
Depression is real; let's take care of our mental health

It is not uncommon in this part of the world for parents to actually punish their children when they show signs of depression associating it with issues of indiscipline, and as a result, the poor child will be lashed or given some kind of punishment. We have had many suicide cases in the country and sadly some of the cases included children and young adults. We need to start looking into issues of mental health with the seriousness it...

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