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SEX: THE VENT THAT CHANNELS BAD LUCK

Dear Coach, I am a thirty- eighty (38) year old guy and I have the desire to get married but unfortunately I indulge in relationships that fail before an eye blinks. It often starts off with some verve fire and it gives me so much hope that one day u will achieve my goal of being a good husband and father to those that life would have chosen for me.

I realised that each time after getting intimate with my partner, it’s like we drift away from each other. I feel like I have some odour that repels them somehow. I dated one other lady, and she is the only one whom I had the longest relationship with, spanning four (4) years.

We broke up because I cheated on her with her cousin. After we broke up, everything went south. My ex- girlfriend used to warn me about her cousin that she is spiritually gifted and sometimes she can misuse her gift. But on the other hand, she is too beautiful and have an hour- glass shaped body, and who could resist such a gesture? She made her first move on me, and I became vulnerable hence I fell for her seduction. She dumbed me immediately after my ex- girlfriend broke- up with me. It felt like she only came to steal, kill and destroy what her cousin and I had, especially that I had intentions of marrying my longest sweetheart.

Editor's Comment
Depression is real; let's take care of our mental health

It is not uncommon in this part of the world for parents to actually punish their children when they show signs of depression associating it with issues of indiscipline, and as a result, the poor child will be lashed or given some kind of punishment. We have had many suicide cases in the country and sadly some of the cases included children and young adults. We need to start looking into issues of mental health with the seriousness it...

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