Less Than 72 Thrusts Is Premature Ejaculation - Sexpert
Thalefang Charles | Monday November 26, 2018 18:50
The sexshop covered various sexual health topics such as how to last longer, how to increase your partner’s libido, erectile dysfunction treatment and how to be the best lover.
On premature ejaculation, the sexologist prescribed more frequent sex (even masturbation). She said, “premature ejaculation is more likely if you are not having it and there is a longer gap between sexual intercourse”.
Rudolph said partners should first try natural remedies before clinical drugs. She advised couples to try sex with the woman on top as it reduces the likelihood of premature ejaculation.
“Ladies, try the squeeze and stop-go techniques that stimulate the penis almost to the point of ejaculation and then stopping,” she advised to the cheeky laughter of the audience. Rudolph also advised that men and women do not view sex in the same way.
She said, “most women have to be made to think about sex while men are always thinking about it”. She urged men to always, “ease into things, slowly”. “Don’t just go for the hole, because women need the right mood to really enjoy sex. No, we don’t wake up with ‘morning glories’, but we certainly can get into the mood, given the right treatment,” she said.
“If you’re a low-libido woman, don’t let sex go out the door,” advised Rudolph. “Find ways of doing it for your own reasons, or you’ll eventually hate it if you’re only doing it for your husband’s sake. Besides, men hate ‘pity sex’; they want their partners fully involved.”
Dr Hilda Nchunga spoke of sex in Christianity saying that sex is a “God given gift to married couples”. “Sex is only for married people. Sex in marriage is the right thing and must be fully enjoyed,” she preached. Nchunga urged couples to be romantic with their partners.
She said continued romance in married couples is crucial for lifelong relationship. She said most partners after marriage do not strive to look attractive for their partners. Nchunga gave an example of women who wear a dull looking molenza at home while they only look gorgeous out at work, away from their men and this does not help their marriage and sex life.
Personal trainer, Agatha Atlholang spoke of the importance to look good for your own good. She brought one of her clients who said the gym made her to be a confident woman in her own body. Atlholang advised attendants to first focus on their mind, body and soul and it would attract the right partners.
Botshelo Madeluka from Princess Marina Hospital’s STI Clinic presented on the sexually transmitted diseases. Although her presentation dampened the sexual mood inside the Kopano Room at Cresta Lodge with gory pictures of sick vaginas and penises with sours and colourful discharges, it was most informative.
She urged couples to have sex with the lights on so that they could watch out for their partner’s illnesses on their private parts. Madeluka also called on couples to test together because, “Nowadays people can buy results”.
Pogiso Bakgaoganye from the Ministry of Health and Wellness made a cheeky demonstration of the female condom. Bakgaoganye brought props of a vagina and penis and the audience wanted him to demonstrate the sexual intercourse.
After he showed how to put in the female condom into the vagina prop, the audience wanted him to put the penis prop in it as they mischievously shouted, “E tsenye!”