Single moms, don�t read this...
Tumie Modise | Monday February 1, 2016 15:43
Goes without saying that the cheeky provocative write up earned him full wrath, probably even death threats! Read and be the judge;
1. Never Available
A single Mother’s schedule is never open. Single mothers are the kind of women to always cancel dates at the last minute. It’s hard to have a relationship with her because she’s never there.
2. YOU are NOT a priority
Usually in a relationship the man winds up DEAD LAST. Behind her kids, her job, the car, the kitchen sink, the stopped up toilet. Even the dog gets more attention. Any man who gets involved with a single mother winds up a fifth stringer in a relationship.
3. Thinks the world revolves around HER
A single mother is one of the biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to drop everything in his life to be part of hers and her kids. They’re so selfish they don’t think a man has needs, wants or a life of his own.
4. Emotionally Unavailable
Most Single mothers cannot form an intimate connection with a man because her feelings are invested in other people. Usually her primary focus is on her children. Worse, her heart is with someone else- their children’s father.
5. The ex/ Baby Daddy is ALWAYS THERE.
A man just doesn’t deal with a single mother. He deals with her ex or her baby daddy as well. And this guy is always hovering around like a helicopter. Some of these guys still think they have a shot at getting back with her. A lot of these dudes want to fight over her. This can go on until the kids are 18, even 21!
6. The kids are working AGAINST YOU
When dealing with a single mother you also deal with Kids. Kids who in their little hearts still think that Dad will come back.
7. Those kids will HATE YOU.
They will act out to keep you from getting closer to mommy. They will make accusations against you to get you in trouble.
8. Entitled attitude
A single mother thinks the world owes her EVERYTHING. They demand to be treated like queens.
9. Distorted self-image
A single mothers still thinks she’s as sexy like she was before she had a baby. They are the type to try to squeeze themselves into sexy outfits like low-rise jeans and cropped T-shirts to show off their belly button, never mind the stretch marks squeezing out over the top of their pants, then head out to the club.
10. Always the victim.
Single Mothers never take responsibility for their actions. The situation they’re in is always ‘someone’s fault but theirs. that “no good man”, “these damn kids” their mother or someone else. They’re still looking for some Rich Incredibly Handsome Man™ to put on a cape and play Captain Save-A-Sister™, sweep her off her feet and take her out of the troubling situation she helped make.
11. Jekyll & Hyde Personality
A single mother will be the sweetest thing when a man first dates her, but a few months into the relationship, she turns into a NUTJOB. Once a single mother gets a man settled into her life it’s not common for her to start verbally abusing him and mocking him as she projects all that pent-up rage from those previous failed relationships onto him. And it’s usually around this point that most men realise why this woman is single and why it’s time for him to hit the exit door.
12. Drama Queen
Because a single mother always sees herself as a victim of society, she’s always talking about her problems. There’s never a good day in the life of a single mother because there’s always some new crisis about to emerge in her life. Drama makes them feel important. It makes people pay attention to them. They are manipulative too.
13. Take that baby daddy!
In most cases she’s dating to make her Baby Baddy jealous. Deep down in her heart she believes that if she’s seen with someone else who sees her as valuable that he’ll see her as valuable and take her back.
14. Dishonest
A single mother is a LIAR. It’s how she manipulates people. It’s how she survives in this world. They lie to men about their age, their height, their weight, how many kids they have, the job they do.
15. Carries Baggage
A single mother has more issues than Time and Newsweek combined. And when she’s looking for a man, she’s not looking for an equal caring partner. She’s looking for a Pullman Porter™ to take care of her kids, and clean up her messes with her children’s father.