Nthebolan dissects complexity of submission in marriage

Henny Maruapula | Friday June 20, 2025 16:34

 

There are, however, many underlying trials and tribulations that we may not be privy to. Certain things can be done that make the marriage stronger. One such is submission. What if the very thing you feared the most about marriage was actually your greatest superpower?

In a world where submission is often misunderstood, dismissed, or labeled as weakness, first-time author Evangelist Nthebolan challenges everything you thought you knew about this powerful yet controversial concept. Drawing from her own deeply personal journey, biblical truths, and cultural insights, she reveals submission not as subjugation, but as a divine tool for harmony, strength, and victory within the marriage covenant.

“This isn’t just another book on marriageit’s a soul-stirring guide for wives, aspiring wives, and every woman who desires to thrive in the role God ordained for her,” said Nthebolan in an interview with Arts&Culture. Through relatable testimonies, compelling scriptural revelations, and practical wisdom, you will learn things such as how submission can unlock your hidden influence as a wife, the true meaning of divine order and marital hierarchy, and why inner beauty matters more than outward appearances. Through Submission In Marriage, you will also learn how to overcome the barriers that keep you from walking in submission, the difference between submission and subjugation why that distinction matters. “Whether you’re newly married, struggling through marital storms, or preparing for your future husband, this book will inspire you to embrace submission as a superpower secret weapon designed by God to build, nurture, and sustain a fulfilling marriage,” elaborated Nthebolan.



Are you ready to harness the power that has the potential to transform your marriage and your life? This is not just a book. It’s your invitation to become the crown your husband deserves and the woman God destined you to be. Nthebolan is a wife, mother, and passionate advocate for godly marriage and family life. An ordained pastor and Marriage Officiate, she is the Vision-bearer for Women of Substance International, a Christian women’s fellowship promoting righteousness in marriage for over 17 years. Beyond ministry, she is an Environmental Science professional with a Master’s degree and extensive experience in socio-economic development. She serves as Executive Director at Geoflux (Pty) Ltd, leading impactful projects in mining, energy, and environmental law.

With a deep biblical foundation and practical wisdom, Evangelist Elmah delivers a transformative message on submission and divine order in marriage, offering clarity, revelation, and hope for wives and aspiring wives.

Her life’s work is a testament that marriage thrives when built on God’s principles. An exciting and impactful book launch of Submission In Marriage is scheduled for 5th July 2025 at Cresta Lodge. Contact +267 72 145 439 for tickets to the book launch, copies of the book and for any inquiries or sponsorship opportunities.