Joyce Andersen: My Mother, My Mentor

Joyce Anderson
Joyce Anderson

Two weeks ago, a colleague, Morongwa Phala-Goodwill, casually said: “Ausi Pam, did you hear about Mma Andersen?” I froze. “Ijoo! Please don’t tell me she is gone.” No. Not yet I later realised. Joyce Andersen, the woman I had known all my life as Ausi Joyce, had had a stroke, and within days, by Saturday, she was gone. I was numb.

I then went into a guilt trip, that of failed promises to visit her at her new place of abode, Kasane. Once in a while, I would call her, and lie through my teeth that “definitely Ausi Joyce, ntla etitaya ka thupana ke tle koo.” She knew I would not honour the promise, as, I had many times before, over decades, avoided that sit for  ‘mother-to-daughter’ talk.

Mother-to-daughter? As I stated earlier, I had known Ausi Joyce all my life. She was there when I was born some donkey years back in Mahalapye, to her friend, Margaret Onkgopotse Dube. She had shared stories of my growing life, which at times my mum neglected to.

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Routine child vaccination imperative

The recent Vaccination Day in Motokwe, orchestrated through collaborative efforts between UNICEF, USAID, BRCS, and the Ministry of Health, underscores a commendable stride towards fortifying child health services.The painful reality as reflected by the Ministry of Health's data regarding the decline in routine immunisation coverage since the onset of the pandemic, is a cause for concern.It underscores the urgent need to address the...

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